Tips for better arguments

“Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.” – Desmond Tutu Frequent arguments tend to be the main reason why couples seek the support of counselling or therapy. Invariable these arguments follow a well-worn path that seems to be effective at driving...

Coping with an Affair

I know many people who hold the view that if their partner had an affair that would be the end of the relationship. However, in the counselling room I also work with many couples who may have held that view but find the reality of an affair taking place puts them in a...